Thursday, March 29, 2012
Thursday, March 22, 2012
Well, call me "blushing"!
Dear Rebels,
I am an ASS. I did not read that entire article before I linked to it, and if I had I would have known it was bogus. There are a couple of ways to tell if your pieces are any good or not and the first is to do your research; secondly is to go with your gut and see if the article makes sense and is not too over the top. This one was. As I got closer to the bottom and the Author got more and more angry, I knew I was in trouble.
I have no excuses, but I will explain what happened. It is Spring Break around here, but for only half of my children; we have a case of unexpected Chicken Pox (and yes we were vaccinated) and things are nutty; I saw that article come across my email and it REALLY scared me, more on that in a minute. I started reading it, I swear I did....and messing with the "link to" buttons, and lo and behold there was one for Blogger. So I thought, what the hell???? Something distracted me, and that was that.
So, let's tackle this thing shall we? First and foremost, my apologies if I offended anyone (which I did). Period. Secondly, I truly am sorry for linking to bullshit; no other way to say it. I really try to pride myself on being an honest and up front writer with you all and that just really put a chip in my "armor" so to speak so let's just forget it happened, "K"? I could have just pulled that piece, but it still would have been cached, and it would not have been a reminder to myself of my mistake. As you see I did make a correction on that page.
Okay, so I tried to think through why I fell for this and it is because I truly feel that this is not far in the making. Through CREDIBLE research I have been reading all about raids on homes, yes homes of FAMILIES, that are being raided with guns abalazin' all at tax payers expense because of milk, eggs or cheese. This to me seems really quite incredible when our country is in such a time of crisis; like a foreclosure epidemic, a couple of possible overseas situations, starving residents, dirty oceans, my list could go on and on... Food that people are literally begging for does not top my list of things to prosecute people for.
I mean it really has nothing at all to do with what I do here on my own Ranch. Even if I did not sell my own products of this nature I would think this is total "you know what". I talked to a friend of mine, and this comes first hand. He had another friend that had a customer for three years. That customer talked him into harvesting some chickens for them; they begged him to do it, even after he explained the law, etc. Well, he went ahead and processed the chickens for the customers; because he had had a relationship with them for so long...BIG MISTAKE. He is still going through court battles.
See, it was all a sting operation. The whole three years! For that whole time these folks had been in the area befriending the locals, buying eggs and then just waiting to ask them to process their chickens and then BAM! they'd bust them for being neighborly! Which, yes, technically is against the law, but I mean really, I kinda wonder how many murders went unsolved during that three year time-frame???
And as far as health concerns go, well you are never going to win that argument with me. The whole reason we are having outbreaks of bacteria these days is because of commercial farming, not because of organic farming. IN MY OPINION, what has happened with CFO farming is that they have robbed the ground of all the nutrients so they have to spray it all back on, therefore using all sorts of chemicals, pesticides, etc. and that is what then causes the outbreaks. Overcrowding of animals is also a HUGE, I can NOT say it enough, HUGE problem of bacteria in CFO farms!!! A person can follow the CDC (Center for Disease Control) paths for themselves of any outbreak of any food at ANYTIME by going to the CDC website.
Now, as you will notice I did not take the time to link to anything with this first piece as I am a bit link shy right now. I have been looking at the great Cantaloupe breakout to see if I can use it as an example, but again the CDC didn't show it's findings very quickly and I really wanted to get my apology out there! But, from what I can gather, they were NOT organic farmers.
So, the bottom line is I screwed up and I'm sorry. And you will continue to see more of my REBEL side, just a bit more toned down! :)
I am an ASS. I did not read that entire article before I linked to it, and if I had I would have known it was bogus. There are a couple of ways to tell if your pieces are any good or not and the first is to do your research; secondly is to go with your gut and see if the article makes sense and is not too over the top. This one was. As I got closer to the bottom and the Author got more and more angry, I knew I was in trouble.
I have no excuses, but I will explain what happened. It is Spring Break around here, but for only half of my children; we have a case of unexpected Chicken Pox (and yes we were vaccinated) and things are nutty; I saw that article come across my email and it REALLY scared me, more on that in a minute. I started reading it, I swear I did....and messing with the "link to" buttons, and lo and behold there was one for Blogger. So I thought, what the hell???? Something distracted me, and that was that.
So, let's tackle this thing shall we? First and foremost, my apologies if I offended anyone (which I did). Period. Secondly, I truly am sorry for linking to bullshit; no other way to say it. I really try to pride myself on being an honest and up front writer with you all and that just really put a chip in my "armor" so to speak so let's just forget it happened, "K"? I could have just pulled that piece, but it still would have been cached, and it would not have been a reminder to myself of my mistake. As you see I did make a correction on that page.
Okay, so I tried to think through why I fell for this and it is because I truly feel that this is not far in the making. Through CREDIBLE research I have been reading all about raids on homes, yes homes of FAMILIES, that are being raided with guns abalazin' all at tax payers expense because of milk, eggs or cheese. This to me seems really quite incredible when our country is in such a time of crisis; like a foreclosure epidemic, a couple of possible overseas situations, starving residents, dirty oceans, my list could go on and on... Food that people are literally begging for does not top my list of things to prosecute people for.
I mean it really has nothing at all to do with what I do here on my own Ranch. Even if I did not sell my own products of this nature I would think this is total "you know what". I talked to a friend of mine, and this comes first hand. He had another friend that had a customer for three years. That customer talked him into harvesting some chickens for them; they begged him to do it, even after he explained the law, etc. Well, he went ahead and processed the chickens for the customers; because he had had a relationship with them for so long...BIG MISTAKE. He is still going through court battles.
See, it was all a sting operation. The whole three years! For that whole time these folks had been in the area befriending the locals, buying eggs and then just waiting to ask them to process their chickens and then BAM! they'd bust them for being neighborly! Which, yes, technically is against the law, but I mean really, I kinda wonder how many murders went unsolved during that three year time-frame???
And as far as health concerns go, well you are never going to win that argument with me. The whole reason we are having outbreaks of bacteria these days is because of commercial farming, not because of organic farming. IN MY OPINION, what has happened with CFO farming is that they have robbed the ground of all the nutrients so they have to spray it all back on, therefore using all sorts of chemicals, pesticides, etc. and that is what then causes the outbreaks. Overcrowding of animals is also a HUGE, I can NOT say it enough, HUGE problem of bacteria in CFO farms!!! A person can follow the CDC (Center for Disease Control) paths for themselves of any outbreak of any food at ANYTIME by going to the CDC website.
Now, as you will notice I did not take the time to link to anything with this first piece as I am a bit link shy right now. I have been looking at the great Cantaloupe breakout to see if I can use it as an example, but again the CDC didn't show it's findings very quickly and I really wanted to get my apology out there! But, from what I can gather, they were NOT organic farmers.
So, the bottom line is I screwed up and I'm sorry. And you will continue to see more of my REBEL side, just a bit more toned down! :)
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Tuesday, March 20, 2012
Obama seizes control over all food, farms, livestock, farm equipment, fertilizer and food production across America
UPDATED MARCH 22, 2012 SORRY REBELS THIS LINK IS BS!!!!
Dear Rebels,
Please excuse this break in our normal programming for this very important message:
Obama seizes control over all food, farms, livestock, farm equipment, fertilizer and food production across America
Thank you!
UPDATED MARCH 22, 2012 SORRY REBELS THIS LINK IS BOGUS!
Saturday, March 10, 2012
Checking In!!!
Dear Rebels,
Hello, from your long lost Author, Judy Jeute, :)!! I am so sorry this going to be a quick little post to let you all know that we, The Jeute/Prentiss clan are "Keepin On, Keepin On" so to speak. Actually, we are doing quite well. My poults are growing like weeds; and as you can see by the photo, they have some company.
I have learned that what is an instinct behavior in chicks, oh you know silly little things like eating and drinking properly, are learned behaviors in poults. So one day when I was at my local Big R store (man do I love that place) to get the babies some vitamins to help perk them up, I heard some peeping and thought the sound had followed me from home in my head or something and lo and behold they had their own brooder full of chicks so I took a couple home to teach my turk babies how to eat and drink and within five minutes of me putting those chicks in there my poults were all standing around the waterer!!! It was amazing.
So, although my hatch rate has totally sucked, and I lost my favorite poult; we have figured out exactly what we are doing wrong so far. And that is all a person can do, right? Learn from their mistakes and go forward from there. And that is exactly what I intend to do. So we have more eggs going in the incubator today since we know what went wrong; poor air flow. That just means more excitement in another month! And even more exciting some of these will be sold for profit, what's that, actual money???? But I believe this is where the saying might apply. Don't count your chickens before their hatched. LOL!!!
Okay, so yesterday I think I might have had one of the craziest days. I started it out with negotiating our new property single-handedly. Thank goodness Tom is working overtime again, and we really need to get this property business taken care of. As soon as the snow melts...we need to be moving our livestock up there. Period. We have fencing to do, barns to build, water to acquire, electricity to figure out, did I mention we will be off grid??? Oh yea, and a minor little thing like shelter for four?!?!?!
Oh wait, got a bit side tracked with my panic attack, JK! No, I talked with our friend who owns our dream property and yesterday I made sure... it is The Double J!!!! I do believe that he, Tom and I will be sitting down this afternoon to finalize everything. Whew.
And then....The High Timber Times arrived. No kidding. Yes, I knew they were coming, but I don't think it all really hit me til the guy with the monstrous cameras got out of his car and told me and Bella to act normal while doing our daily chores. She joked that she wanted to go inside and hop on the couch-ha! Anywho, the reason they were here is that they are doing a story on the Mountain Resource Center; and as I mentioned in The American Tragedy, I went to MRC for help with my electric bills.
I really have no idea how this story will turn out and to be honest, we were really nervous about doing it. Could they make us out like the poor kids on the block??? This is a local paper, all of our family and friends are going to see it... they are ALL going to know now that we are in FORECLOSURE and that we have had all of these issues. But you know what else they are going to know? They are going to SEE me and Bella. And I hope they hear the pride that we have in our ranch and our area. But mostly in ourselves and our family.
Yeah, we have been put through the wringer, and yes, we have made some mistakes. But we are being responsible for them now and moving right along. Yesterday when I was being the pied piper and the turkeys were following me across the road as Bella gently herded them and the photographer snapped away I couldn't have been more proud. I don't care about our mistakes or my pain or whatever, it was the smile on that girls face.... I could see the pride in her heart.
I also learned yesterday that Judy means praiseworthy. And for some reason that really came at a nice time; when I'm negotiating deals and being a public figure and a proud mom. So maybe this post was not as short as I intended, as I am behind in my schoolwork, but I needed to let my dear Rebels know....We are here, we are good, and we are doing what needs to be done.
JJ~
PS "Our" edition of The High Timber Times should come out Wednesday March 14, 2012 barring a local news emergency.
Hello, from your long lost Author, Judy Jeute, :)!! I am so sorry this going to be a quick little post to let you all know that we, The Jeute/Prentiss clan are "Keepin On, Keepin On" so to speak. Actually, we are doing quite well. My poults are growing like weeds; and as you can see by the photo, they have some company.
(Aren't they adorable? The brown one looking at the camera is a poult and the black and yellow ones are chicks!! Too sweet for words, really.)
So, although my hatch rate has totally sucked, and I lost my favorite poult; we have figured out exactly what we are doing wrong so far. And that is all a person can do, right? Learn from their mistakes and go forward from there. And that is exactly what I intend to do. So we have more eggs going in the incubator today since we know what went wrong; poor air flow. That just means more excitement in another month! And even more exciting some of these will be sold for profit, what's that, actual money???? But I believe this is where the saying might apply. Don't count your chickens before their hatched. LOL!!!
Okay, so yesterday I think I might have had one of the craziest days. I started it out with negotiating our new property single-handedly. Thank goodness Tom is working overtime again, and we really need to get this property business taken care of. As soon as the snow melts...we need to be moving our livestock up there. Period. We have fencing to do, barns to build, water to acquire, electricity to figure out, did I mention we will be off grid??? Oh yea, and a minor little thing like shelter for four?!?!?!
Oh wait, got a bit side tracked with my panic attack, JK! No, I talked with our friend who owns our dream property and yesterday I made sure... it is The Double J!!!! I do believe that he, Tom and I will be sitting down this afternoon to finalize everything. Whew.
And then....The High Timber Times arrived. No kidding. Yes, I knew they were coming, but I don't think it all really hit me til the guy with the monstrous cameras got out of his car and told me and Bella to act normal while doing our daily chores. She joked that she wanted to go inside and hop on the couch-ha! Anywho, the reason they were here is that they are doing a story on the Mountain Resource Center; and as I mentioned in The American Tragedy, I went to MRC for help with my electric bills.
I really have no idea how this story will turn out and to be honest, we were really nervous about doing it. Could they make us out like the poor kids on the block??? This is a local paper, all of our family and friends are going to see it... they are ALL going to know now that we are in FORECLOSURE and that we have had all of these issues. But you know what else they are going to know? They are going to SEE me and Bella. And I hope they hear the pride that we have in our ranch and our area. But mostly in ourselves and our family.
Yeah, we have been put through the wringer, and yes, we have made some mistakes. But we are being responsible for them now and moving right along. Yesterday when I was being the pied piper and the turkeys were following me across the road as Bella gently herded them and the photographer snapped away I couldn't have been more proud. I don't care about our mistakes or my pain or whatever, it was the smile on that girls face.... I could see the pride in her heart.
I also learned yesterday that Judy means praiseworthy. And for some reason that really came at a nice time; when I'm negotiating deals and being a public figure and a proud mom. So maybe this post was not as short as I intended, as I am behind in my schoolwork, but I needed to let my dear Rebels know....We are here, we are good, and we are doing what needs to be done.
JJ~
PS "Our" edition of The High Timber Times should come out Wednesday March 14, 2012 barring a local news emergency.
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Thursday, February 23, 2012
The American Tragedy Part 2
I was feeling really terribly that I left you all with such sad news and with sort of a negative post; the one about Shasta. But, to be honest, that is sort of how life has been around here...But that is sort of how life has been for MANY people, for a VERY long time; so I am still smiling and laughing each and every day. And knowing that many of these things are a natural part of any ranchers life; and that I would not be a good rancher if I did not take them so DEAR TO HEART.
So it is time to get over my pity party and get back to work. I don't have many months left here at The Royal Ranch and I need to make every minute count. I don't know if I have made the point enough times, but I am a full time student at Ohio Christian University now also; so life is a bit hectic, what with eggs in the incubator, kids running to and fro, new turkeys adjusting to our ranch routine and of course online studies to be done.
I am orchestrating the move of an entire ranch/family that will also entail a huge downsizing (which is a good thing in my book) and still taking on new projects. Yes, you heard that right. Why? Because I feel that this particular project is one that will help my family, my new homestead and my community. I will get further into it in another post, because I have really used my negotiating skills to get this project off the ground!
Today I want to talk a bit further about the banks (and bank bailouts). Simply because I said I would. I am not going to spend much of my energy on them because frankly they don't deserve much of my energy anymore; but what I do want to share is some useful tips. I told you all our story in the first post of The American Tragedy. I also told you all in that first post that our belief is that this foreclosure mess in America is due to the bank bailouts.
Okay, so I am no financial genius. From here on out you are going to assume some of your own risk. But I mean this country has a financial epidemic on it's hands. We went to our county's Public Trustee's website to figure out about foreclosures in our county and did you know that only banks buy up foreclosures? Not one has been sold to a private person in the last year. That's right they take them, buy them back and then sit on them. Why? In my opinion, so that they can tell us tax payers that it is a loss and then when the market gets better they will put them all for sale; which by the way will be no good for the recovering market.
I mean, I just went to go pick up the links for this story and started getting a damn headache from reading it all. I can't do it Dear Rebels. So if you want to do some reading on what all is happening to folks, have a go at this article (don't forget the comments, that is half the story!). Or this one, because it is where I got a good piece of advice. Well, I hope so anyway. I filed a complaint with the OCC (Offices of the Comptroller of the Currency); which so far hasn't shown to do anything, but at least I feel like I am doing something and they are not just going to get away with this scott free.
Next, if you are in this or any other legal issue for that matter; make sure and read every line of every piece of paper that you are sent, and even more importantly do it in a timely fashion as their are "due dates" on many items. Now, this may sound like common sense to some, but it simply is NOT. When a person finds themselves in a place like I have the past few weeks, and that is simply inundated with work and pretty much grief stricken; common sense does not play a role.
I got a mailing from the attorneys that are foreclosing on our homes, and of course this mailing pissed me off. So, being the Rebel that I am I had set it aside and not thought much about it. Well, it just so happens that it was The Fair Debt Collections Practices Act that they are required to send me and it actually had some really helpful information in it so if I hadn't read each and every little bitty, and they do make sure it is little bitty, line of it, I would not know that they have to provide me with quite a bit of information before they can just foreclose on my home. The catch of course is that you have to ask for this information, in writing, within thirty days.
So they are of course hoping you, as a dummy don't read the tiny writing and won't do the awkward wording of how in the hell am I going to ask them for all of that stuff and make it sound just so? And within their time-frame no less? Well, at least I was. So, lo and behold my class right now is Intro to Computers and we are learning Microsoft Word; can you believe that in that program is a template for exactly what I needed? I mean this letter even quoted The Fair Debt Collection Practices Act and a court case that supports it and everything. So there is help out there for us dummies folks, don't despair.
Lastly, we got a delivery from a Deputy of an affidavit that has some helpful information on it that we are following up on as well. This program is something called Deferment; and I don't know much about it except that it goes through the Colorado Foreclosure Hotline and it gets you set up with a HUD counselor if you are approved. I must admit I am a tad bit leery of this program as it is another government plan (gee, we've had such great luck with those so far...) and they are for people who intend to keep their properties as their PERMANENT RESIDENCE. Which I am not sure we can commit to. Wink, wink Big Brother.
You know that anything I say can and will be used against me in a court of law...or something like that.
So it is time to get over my pity party and get back to work. I don't have many months left here at The Royal Ranch and I need to make every minute count. I don't know if I have made the point enough times, but I am a full time student at Ohio Christian University now also; so life is a bit hectic, what with eggs in the incubator, kids running to and fro, new turkeys adjusting to our ranch routine and of course online studies to be done.
I am orchestrating the move of an entire ranch/family that will also entail a huge downsizing (which is a good thing in my book) and still taking on new projects. Yes, you heard that right. Why? Because I feel that this particular project is one that will help my family, my new homestead and my community. I will get further into it in another post, because I have really used my negotiating skills to get this project off the ground!
Today I want to talk a bit further about the banks (and bank bailouts). Simply because I said I would. I am not going to spend much of my energy on them because frankly they don't deserve much of my energy anymore; but what I do want to share is some useful tips. I told you all our story in the first post of The American Tragedy. I also told you all in that first post that our belief is that this foreclosure mess in America is due to the bank bailouts.
Okay, so I am no financial genius. From here on out you are going to assume some of your own risk. But I mean this country has a financial epidemic on it's hands. We went to our county's Public Trustee's website to figure out about foreclosures in our county and did you know that only banks buy up foreclosures? Not one has been sold to a private person in the last year. That's right they take them, buy them back and then sit on them. Why? In my opinion, so that they can tell us tax payers that it is a loss and then when the market gets better they will put them all for sale; which by the way will be no good for the recovering market.
I mean, I just went to go pick up the links for this story and started getting a damn headache from reading it all. I can't do it Dear Rebels. So if you want to do some reading on what all is happening to folks, have a go at this article (don't forget the comments, that is half the story!). Or this one, because it is where I got a good piece of advice. Well, I hope so anyway. I filed a complaint with the OCC (Offices of the Comptroller of the Currency); which so far hasn't shown to do anything, but at least I feel like I am doing something and they are not just going to get away with this scott free.
Next, if you are in this or any other legal issue for that matter; make sure and read every line of every piece of paper that you are sent, and even more importantly do it in a timely fashion as their are "due dates" on many items. Now, this may sound like common sense to some, but it simply is NOT. When a person finds themselves in a place like I have the past few weeks, and that is simply inundated with work and pretty much grief stricken; common sense does not play a role.
I got a mailing from the attorneys that are foreclosing on our homes, and of course this mailing pissed me off. So, being the Rebel that I am I had set it aside and not thought much about it. Well, it just so happens that it was The Fair Debt Collections Practices Act that they are required to send me and it actually had some really helpful information in it so if I hadn't read each and every little bitty, and they do make sure it is little bitty, line of it, I would not know that they have to provide me with quite a bit of information before they can just foreclose on my home. The catch of course is that you have to ask for this information, in writing, within thirty days.
So they are of course hoping you, as a dummy don't read the tiny writing and won't do the awkward wording of how in the hell am I going to ask them for all of that stuff and make it sound just so? And within their time-frame no less? Well, at least I was. So, lo and behold my class right now is Intro to Computers and we are learning Microsoft Word; can you believe that in that program is a template for exactly what I needed? I mean this letter even quoted The Fair Debt Collection Practices Act and a court case that supports it and everything. So there is help out there for us dummies folks, don't despair.
Lastly, we got a delivery from a Deputy of an affidavit that has some helpful information on it that we are following up on as well. This program is something called Deferment; and I don't know much about it except that it goes through the Colorado Foreclosure Hotline and it gets you set up with a HUD counselor if you are approved. I must admit I am a tad bit leery of this program as it is another government plan (gee, we've had such great luck with those so far...) and they are for people who intend to keep their properties as their PERMANENT RESIDENCE. Which I am not sure we can commit to. Wink, wink Big Brother.
You know that anything I say can and will be used against me in a court of law...or something like that.
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Friday, February 17, 2012
Ode to Shasta
Shasta and Shade
Please Lord, wake me up from this nightmare that I am in. Oh wait, I am fully awake and this is my real life. Last night I went to put my daughter to bed and our Baby Girl Shasta was lying peacefully on her bed like she had been all day. When my daughter grabbed her to cuddle up for the night she made an odd sound and her mouth sort of fell open; I tried to act normal and finish putting My Bell to bed and took the cat out of the room to my husband.
She was gone within minutes. She made one more noise, a loud meow and then she was gone. My husband and I just stood there in total shock, our beloved Raggedy Ann Doll Kitty was gone forever!!! She got this reputation from years of being carried around like a rag doll; literally being tossed over the shoulder of many children with her arms on either side of their necks. She would hug them as if her little life depended upon it and let them take her wherever they were headed off to play...
Although most visitors to the Royal Ranch did not even know that we had Shasta as she was very shy, but she had a soft spot for the children, especially our son Austin. She was drawn to him from the very beginning of his and our oldest son Thomas' friendship so many years ago; and she would sleep on him whenever she got the chance! Their next visit home will not be the same without her...
In loving memory of the best Raggedy Ann Doll a girl could EVER ask for. We love you dearly, Shasta.
PS When I clicked on the link to find it for Shade, I re-read that post and thought GEEZ, if I only knew then what I know now.... Yes, the loss of Shade really was an indicator of times a changin'; I have lost my herdsire, Marcel since then, which to be honest really made me lose my passion for llamas... Now the loss of my beloved Shasta. The loss of The Royal Ranch is taking its toll on us all it seems; it is most definitely time to move on and get a fresh start. When we told our kids about the foreclosure, my son Nathan said that it was okay because he thinks that this place may be poisoning us and after what has been going on I'm not too sure if I don't agree with him.
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Thursday, February 16, 2012
The Silver Lining
Okay, so just moments ago I posted about our foreclosure, literally. But I am going to let this post sit in my drafts folder for a few days for a couple of reasons. First and foremost so that my first post in this series gets it's full amount of time in the spotlight so to speak; and secondly because this part of the story, too is one that is unfolding daily and will be the fun part to share.
You see, when I made the decision to go public with this Foreclosure deal, I talked to my family about that decision and how it would affect each and every one of us. Not that I am like famous or anything, but word will get out a little faster this way.... Specifically, I asked my parents for feedback on the first article I wrote.
Well, Mom felt obligated to tell the family before it hit the airwaves, which I entirely respect. What I didn't expect was for my family to react the way they did. My Uncle and Aunt will be arriving this weekend with a large bale of hay and my Grandpa is making a tuition payment for us!
Which brings me back around to one of the reasons I wanted to write this piece. I wrote in The American Tragedy about us making decisions, not mistakes, throughout this process and I would like to clarify that a bit. We have chosen to pay for our boys to go to school as much as we can instead of them going into debt. Yes, they have taken on debt for themselves, but we are paying for as much as we can. Some people may say that is a mistake; I for one was not willing to start my kids out with a pile of debt.
Another thing that I think a family needs to really and truly look at when they get to a point that we are in is if they are living above their means. And we are to the point that we know we are, and we are done with living that way. The hard part for many families, as it was with us, is that we weren't living above our means at one time. With the change in economy and the added medical expenses it happened slowly over time.
We are so excited to be moving on and ready for the next phase in our lives. Although it is scary to be downsizing at this stage; it is a necessary evil. I will share some of these tips and tricks with all of you too, if that is what you want, give me some feedback here... So far, one of my rules is if it isn't antique or in use....it isn't going!!!
JJ~
You see, when I made the decision to go public with this Foreclosure deal, I talked to my family about that decision and how it would affect each and every one of us. Not that I am like famous or anything, but word will get out a little faster this way.... Specifically, I asked my parents for feedback on the first article I wrote.
Well, Mom felt obligated to tell the family before it hit the airwaves, which I entirely respect. What I didn't expect was for my family to react the way they did. My Uncle and Aunt will be arriving this weekend with a large bale of hay and my Grandpa is making a tuition payment for us!
Which brings me back around to one of the reasons I wanted to write this piece. I wrote in The American Tragedy about us making decisions, not mistakes, throughout this process and I would like to clarify that a bit. We have chosen to pay for our boys to go to school as much as we can instead of them going into debt. Yes, they have taken on debt for themselves, but we are paying for as much as we can. Some people may say that is a mistake; I for one was not willing to start my kids out with a pile of debt.
Another thing that I think a family needs to really and truly look at when they get to a point that we are in is if they are living above their means. And we are to the point that we know we are, and we are done with living that way. The hard part for many families, as it was with us, is that we weren't living above our means at one time. With the change in economy and the added medical expenses it happened slowly over time.
We are so excited to be moving on and ready for the next phase in our lives. Although it is scary to be downsizing at this stage; it is a necessary evil. I will share some of these tips and tricks with all of you too, if that is what you want, give me some feedback here... So far, one of my rules is if it isn't antique or in use....it isn't going!!!
JJ~
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