Showing posts with label volunteering. Show all posts
Showing posts with label volunteering. Show all posts
Thursday, March 29, 2012
Saturday, October 1, 2011
Life's funny little bumpy roads.....
":) Being a leader, especially a leader of conscience, isn't always easy."
Yes, read that Rebels and let that sink in for just a minute. I had to. Dear friend and Rebel, Daisy sent that to me when I thanked her for her support about my letter to Ms. McGee a few days ago. And it was funny because I got it on a day I had also taken on another llama big wig, the day I had to have another MRI on my back.
The day had been a hellish day anyway. I must say that sometimes it is easier to just count on yourself than to have partial support. Tom had told me he'd take me to the appointment, which is great, but then he had to go back to work....and it was almost worse than if I'd just counted on my own strength the whole time, you know what I mean???? I had had to go and pick up my daughter sick from school and that threw a wrench into the morning....
But the big tests these days seem to be coming from my so called peers. And what I have realized is that they don't know I am their peer; and that is where things went all wrong. I'll give you a bit of background on the story, although it really isn't all that important to my point, but over a decade ago when I first got into llamas I mistakenly bought 2 llamas. At that time I didn't know that there were rescue llamas that needed homes. Llamas were on the downhill slide of the fad I guess....
One of those purchased llamas is the only one that has ever given us much trouble. He is the only llama that I have ever had to spend vet dollars on other than maintenance because I have tried to figure out what the hell is wrong with him. He has knocked each of my family members down, he has bitten me and all of these things are absolutely NOT normal llama behavior.
In the decade since owning this llama I have learned A LOT!!! I have also rescued more than twenty llamas; many of them I (little old me at 120 lbs soaking wet as my husband would say) have trained to pack from being not even halter broke. I have no formal training in llama handling besides what my wonderful mentor Bobra Goldsmith taught me before she died; which was a lot.
She taught me to simply expect good behavior from my animals; and that is a theory The Royal Ranch has always had. When I train a llama to pack it is simply an agreement between the llama and myself....I'm going to trust you and you're going to trust me. By the time I put the pack on them I have been building a working, trusting, loving relationship with the animal for as long as I can. I don't stand for bad behavior and I never will; that is just the way it is.
Speaking of hunting camps..
Take for instance our first hunt camp ever. We had been getting advice from everyone that animals are afraid of the smell of blood and that our llamas were going to freak out unless they had been trained to be around meat, etc. We had even been told to stuff their nostril with some sort of Mentholatum so that they wouldn't smell anything; to me this sounded like abuse.
So Tom and I headed up the mountain with our very untrained pack train of llamas to pick up a huge bull elk for a friend. We figured since it was a good friend of ours at least if the llamas freaked, no biggy. We got to the camp and we did what we usually do; we packed up that elk and we put it on the llamas....that was that. They were a bit jumpy at first but when they saw that we just expected them to behave like any old job, and we weren't going to take any crap from them, it was the end of their nervousness. They knew they could trust us. One of them even had to wear the antlers and the cape (which is the hyde) of the elk down the mountain! It was sort of weird to look forward (I of course am always in the caboose position with Tom in lead) and see a llama with antlers-ha!!!
But back to my point, I am no llama schmutz. I know what the hell I am doing when it comes to these animals. I am the Co-Colorado Coordinator (it's an awful big state) for the Southwest Llama Rescue, and not by mistake, I was voted in. If there is an aggressive male within a four state radius of me, chances are he is going to end up at my place for evaluation and rehab if he is capable.
So it really surprised me when I called the breeder of that fat, lazy llama and had to get into a battle of wits with him over the behavior of said llama and what to do about it. Now that my spine is not quite what is used to be, I'm not really sure I'm comfortable, or really need a spoiled, over de-sensitized llama in my yard when I have spent the last decade of my life to saving llamas that really need homes. As I mentioned this man, like Ms. McGee is in the llama world...you know, people that give a crap what other llama owners think of them.
He acted as if I was still some newbie, the same nobody that had walked into his yard 12 years ago looking at llamas for the first time and offered to come assess the llama for me. Well, no thanks. I've been assessing him and paying for him and having to watch out for my family's and visitor's safety from him for ten years now. I gave him a very clear assessment of the situation, and simply asked if they were in a position to take him back now that my back is in such bad shape and he poses a real danger to me with his pushy behavior.
Well, needless to say, the llama will be staying where he is at. The llama breeder got told exactly what I thought of his assessment. And I kept thinking "Really? Two people in one week? My name is going to be $*@! in the llama world" But I don't give a rat's patooty because that guy had it coming. (Well, I sort of did, I actually threw a baby fit when I got off the phone with him he had made me so mad, but it was just a natural reaction-ha!!!!)
And then I got that sweet quote from Daisy worth repeating again, "Being a leader, especially a leader of conscience, isn't always easy."; and it made me smile. Thursday, I got a call from a gal on my rescue group who asked if I had a few minutes; I gotta tell you after the week I'd had with llama folks I thought I was really in for it now. Actually she was calling to answer a question I had posted about; but more importantly she was calling to ask me if she could gift me a sweater that she had cherished for years because it had llamas on it.
She wanted me to have it because I have added such "vitality and personality" to the group. All I thought I did was respond to the emails and try to help out a few llamas when I could-who knew? It truly was a wonderful phone conversation; one of those where you really just enjoy getting to know the person at the other end of the line. This amazing lady owned llamas from 1978 to 2008, and here I thought I was all that-ha! But the point was, I know it sounds silly, but I felt like the chosen one, you know?
Then last night I answer the phone to the cutest little southern voice you can imagine and she is just thanking me up and down. And it took me a second to figure out what the heck I had done. Oh yeah, email again, I had sent a positive, reinforcing email to a newbie llama owner. Amazing how far positive reinforcement goes, eh? Whether it is with ourselves, our kids, our dogs, our llamas, whatever; I think in this post alone I have given you several examples!
These new folks have been SO kind to adopt some llamas from Nebraska; the issue is that they live in Texas. Which as you all know is having a drought and heat problem. The Colorado folks took in the Nebraska llamas temporarily until we could get them down south. Well, somehow these folks got to thinking that our talking about expenses to get those llamas down there meant they were a burden (we should have switched to a more private Yahoo board in hind sight to avoid hurt feelings maybe!) and I tried to clear that up, right quick. Anyone sticking their neck out to rescue one (and they are taking in 11!) of my wondrous creatures is no burden to me, that is for DAMN sure!
So my week had turned from on the attack to on the receiving end of so many blessings. I do believe strongly in everything I told those people I had to tell off, but I also truly believe even stronger what I told those people in loving manners. Originally when I first started this post a day or so ago, it was called "Being kicked while you're down...", and then these crazy events just kept happening and I could no longer call it that, could I?
Sunday, September 25, 2011
Dear Ms. McGee,
You called here screaming at me last night due to an email I sent you. You were wondering (again and again) "just who the hell I am" to write you such an email, and how dare I suggest you give away your livelihood. Well, my dear, My name is Judy Jeute. And it is called a tax donation.
See, readers, I had emailed Ms. McGee that she should be ashamed of herself for attempting to make money on those of us who have stuck our necks out to save the hundreds of starving llamas from the Montana Sanctuary in the middle of winter. She is offering half price llama handling clinics to those kind folks who rescued llamas; and I told her "Half price? Gah!!!"
When I picked up the phone she almost immediately was on the attack and so I got the uncomfortable chuckle like humans tend to get, and that really pissed her off!!! But what I really realized is that what she was the maddest about is that how dare some unknown llama nobody suggest that Queen McGee get off her ass and actually do something to help not only the almost thousand llamas that came off that sanctuary but almost hundreds of HUMANS that helped them!
So, no Ms. McGee, I will not apologize for my "Nasty-gram", which really wasn't all that nasty, if it gets you to thinking about folks other than yourself. The IRS will thank you kindly. And I would imagine it would do wonders for your business as well, those friends would tell their friends, etc. Much better press than this!
Kind regards, er, not so kind regards,
Judy Jeute
Manager/Co-owner
Royal Ranch
See, readers, I had emailed Ms. McGee that she should be ashamed of herself for attempting to make money on those of us who have stuck our necks out to save the hundreds of starving llamas from the Montana Sanctuary in the middle of winter. She is offering half price llama handling clinics to those kind folks who rescued llamas; and I told her "Half price? Gah!!!"
When I picked up the phone she almost immediately was on the attack and so I got the uncomfortable chuckle like humans tend to get, and that really pissed her off!!! But what I really realized is that what she was the maddest about is that how dare some unknown llama nobody suggest that Queen McGee get off her ass and actually do something to help not only the almost thousand llamas that came off that sanctuary but almost hundreds of HUMANS that helped them!
So, no Ms. McGee, I will not apologize for my "Nasty-gram", which really wasn't all that nasty, if it gets you to thinking about folks other than yourself. The IRS will thank you kindly. And I would imagine it would do wonders for your business as well, those friends would tell their friends, etc. Much better press than this!
Kind regards, er, not so kind regards,
Judy Jeute
Manager/Co-owner
Royal Ranch
Friday, July 29, 2011
The Royal Ranch Visits Oklahoma
Wow! Did we have a wild and woolly trip to Oklahoma!!! Literally. We started the trip off by heading to my in laws place in Matheson, CO where we spent the night and got to spend a little time with my wonderful BIL (Brother-In-Law) and niece. My poor SIL had to work that night, but we did catch her sleeping on the ground hoping to catch a glimpse of her nephews and niece that were happily all sleeping in her bunkhouse. They had all spent the night playing Wii and who knows what cousins do to all hours of the morning. I just about burst out in tears when I saw my almost grown kids all cuddled up in blankets out in this barn style bunkhouse and their Aunt keeping watch over them by the fire outside, with the rooster crowing and the horses grazing in the background...
We left the kids in the very capable hands of the family for the day while Tom and I went to shear and pick up some llamas a couple of towns away in Peyton, CO. We had such a wonderful time at the Rivera place...Really. Here we were there to work, and work we did, but we made some wonderful friends as well. We sheared seven llamas in no time flat thanks to their great hospitality, a fantastic chute (Tom and I have never worked with a chute before, interestingly most llama people will tell you you have to have one to work with llamas!) and the fact that they had so many helpers.
While we were there, we found out that Henry Rivera (sorry no link, contact me for his information) is a fantastic artist. And here we had just been outside swapping sweat with the guy! Ha! The Rivera's treated us like Royalty; they teased us that they had gone to the website and knew that we were The Royal Ranch and must be treated as such. Lunch was wonderful, the shearing was smooth as silk, excuse the pun, and the loading went as well as could be expected for ten wild llamas.
We headed back to the in-laws to get the kids and some much needed rest, we thought; and just when I drifted off to sleep my cell phone rang and it was the gentleman we were to meet in Oklahoma with the llamas. He was on his way. What???? Okay. So we loaded up the kids, oh yes, we were blessed with all our of our children this trip, and headed for Oklahoma!
See, these llamas had been adopted by a family in Washington, OK. We were to shear them and then transport them to Guymon, OK to meet the new owners halfway. I guess they got a little excited and I miscommunicated, but it all worked out because I wanted the llamas to travel in the cool of the night anyway. But, the problem with that is the storms. And let me tell you about the storms. I mean I thought we were in a tornado at one point in time, the lightning was crashing and hitting the fields right next to us. We passed a cow that had been hit even. It was crazy! And then once it got dark and the storms were bad, all you could see was when the lightning struck it lit up everything for miles....and then back to pitch black and that howling wind!
Amazingly enough, two people coming from six hours apart, arrived in the same little sleepy town of Oklahoma within five minutes of each other. And even better, the llamas were so tired and road weary and afraid of the storms that we had passed through (and thankfully avoided while we traded llamas), did not give us one bit of hassle. We found a hotel with a pool for the kids and piled in. Goodnight, ya'all.
Sunday the kids wanted to swim of course before we hit the road to who knew where (that's sort of how the Jeute's roll). My fifteen year old son went to jump in the deep end and couldn't get his footing because the bottom was so slimey. All righty then. Think I'll just stay walking around to get my exercise in the shallow end, thank you very much. Kids, please shower after this one...But we all were giving my husband a hard time because he just seems to attract the "locals", if you know what I mean; and can talk to just about anyone, including the guy who needed to wait for my kids to get out of the pool to shock it with four pounds of chlorine.
Or the guy on the side of the road in the middle of the night holding the road sign. Tom had decided to pull forward and ask him how he liked his job and about the local economy and such. Well, all we kept getting out of the guy was a "Yuup", and I'm thinking to myself, can we back up? How long could this wait possibly be? Ha!
So anyway, we leave Guymon, and again in Jeute fashion we really have no idea where we are going, but decide that we want to go home through New Mexico instead of the same route we had just come. We see a black road on the map that looks pretty good and we take it...not looking at the legend of course. Remember, these accidents often happen for good reasons. I had all of my family trapped right there in the truck with me. And we were on a dirt road...I was in heaven!
We saw turkeys and deer and elk and the plants, oh I was absolutely enthralled with the plants. We stopped at Black Mesa Nature Preserve where there was an entire ecosystem that you could just walk right up to! Complete with fish and cattails and dragonflies,etc. The petrified forest nature hike that we took was really cool, there were lizards for the kids to watch and all sorts of species of plants for me to guess at.
We made it to Raton, NM Sunday night and the kids gave Tom and I a hard time because of course we chose this little hillbilly looking motel across the street from the big name Hotel. While Tom was inside the boys were in the back just complaining away saying that this place was redneck and going to suck and be small and not have wifi, etc. Then we opened up the door to our huge room (with all amenities), and they both (the eighteen year olds) said the other place had nothing on this one-ha! It had a nice clean pool too; and we even got a late check out so that we got to spend some time there on Monday!
It was a tad bit of a bummer that the restaurant that they suggested was no good, they took forever and I got sick. Yeah, I got sick, and I never get food sick. And the day we were traveling home too. But it was quick and over, so I was pretty lucky.
The ride home was uneventful, but I will say that we are heartsick for the parts of the country that are experiencing drought. The little bit that we saw was devastating. I have been hearing about poultry houses that have lost thousands of birds due to heat stress and it makes me thankful every single day that my birds can free range to go where they need to go to adjust their own body temperatures. And I am so blessed to have had the rain these past few weeks. We drove past fields that were simply left because of drought...
So thank you America, for another wonderful vacation and the chance to spend time with my family.
We left the kids in the very capable hands of the family for the day while Tom and I went to shear and pick up some llamas a couple of towns away in Peyton, CO. We had such a wonderful time at the Rivera place...Really. Here we were there to work, and work we did, but we made some wonderful friends as well. We sheared seven llamas in no time flat thanks to their great hospitality, a fantastic chute (Tom and I have never worked with a chute before, interestingly most llama people will tell you you have to have one to work with llamas!) and the fact that they had so many helpers.
While we were there, we found out that Henry Rivera (sorry no link, contact me for his information) is a fantastic artist. And here we had just been outside swapping sweat with the guy! Ha! The Rivera's treated us like Royalty; they teased us that they had gone to the website and knew that we were The Royal Ranch and must be treated as such. Lunch was wonderful, the shearing was smooth as silk, excuse the pun, and the loading went as well as could be expected for ten wild llamas.
We headed back to the in-laws to get the kids and some much needed rest, we thought; and just when I drifted off to sleep my cell phone rang and it was the gentleman we were to meet in Oklahoma with the llamas. He was on his way. What???? Okay. So we loaded up the kids, oh yes, we were blessed with all our of our children this trip, and headed for Oklahoma!
See, these llamas had been adopted by a family in Washington, OK. We were to shear them and then transport them to Guymon, OK to meet the new owners halfway. I guess they got a little excited and I miscommunicated, but it all worked out because I wanted the llamas to travel in the cool of the night anyway. But, the problem with that is the storms. And let me tell you about the storms. I mean I thought we were in a tornado at one point in time, the lightning was crashing and hitting the fields right next to us. We passed a cow that had been hit even. It was crazy! And then once it got dark and the storms were bad, all you could see was when the lightning struck it lit up everything for miles....and then back to pitch black and that howling wind!
Amazingly enough, two people coming from six hours apart, arrived in the same little sleepy town of Oklahoma within five minutes of each other. And even better, the llamas were so tired and road weary and afraid of the storms that we had passed through (and thankfully avoided while we traded llamas), did not give us one bit of hassle. We found a hotel with a pool for the kids and piled in. Goodnight, ya'all.
Sunday the kids wanted to swim of course before we hit the road to who knew where (that's sort of how the Jeute's roll). My fifteen year old son went to jump in the deep end and couldn't get his footing because the bottom was so slimey. All righty then. Think I'll just stay walking around to get my exercise in the shallow end, thank you very much. Kids, please shower after this one...But we all were giving my husband a hard time because he just seems to attract the "locals", if you know what I mean; and can talk to just about anyone, including the guy who needed to wait for my kids to get out of the pool to shock it with four pounds of chlorine.
Or the guy on the side of the road in the middle of the night holding the road sign. Tom had decided to pull forward and ask him how he liked his job and about the local economy and such. Well, all we kept getting out of the guy was a "Yuup", and I'm thinking to myself, can we back up? How long could this wait possibly be? Ha!
So anyway, we leave Guymon, and again in Jeute fashion we really have no idea where we are going, but decide that we want to go home through New Mexico instead of the same route we had just come. We see a black road on the map that looks pretty good and we take it...not looking at the legend of course. Remember, these accidents often happen for good reasons. I had all of my family trapped right there in the truck with me. And we were on a dirt road...I was in heaven!
We saw turkeys and deer and elk and the plants, oh I was absolutely enthralled with the plants. We stopped at Black Mesa Nature Preserve where there was an entire ecosystem that you could just walk right up to! Complete with fish and cattails and dragonflies,etc. The petrified forest nature hike that we took was really cool, there were lizards for the kids to watch and all sorts of species of plants for me to guess at.
We made it to Raton, NM Sunday night and the kids gave Tom and I a hard time because of course we chose this little hillbilly looking motel across the street from the big name Hotel. While Tom was inside the boys were in the back just complaining away saying that this place was redneck and going to suck and be small and not have wifi, etc. Then we opened up the door to our huge room (with all amenities), and they both (the eighteen year olds) said the other place had nothing on this one-ha! It had a nice clean pool too; and we even got a late check out so that we got to spend some time there on Monday!
It was a tad bit of a bummer that the restaurant that they suggested was no good, they took forever and I got sick. Yeah, I got sick, and I never get food sick. And the day we were traveling home too. But it was quick and over, so I was pretty lucky.
The ride home was uneventful, but I will say that we are heartsick for the parts of the country that are experiencing drought. The little bit that we saw was devastating. I have been hearing about poultry houses that have lost thousands of birds due to heat stress and it makes me thankful every single day that my birds can free range to go where they need to go to adjust their own body temperatures. And I am so blessed to have had the rain these past few weeks. We drove past fields that were simply left because of drought...
So thank you America, for another wonderful vacation and the chance to spend time with my family.
Saturday, June 18, 2011
Bailey Day 2011
Entrikin Cabin located in McGraw Park
Photo courtesy of Gary Nichols
Well, here it is Bailey Day 2011; and boy did this one sneak up on me! I had to look up in the newspaper when we were expected to be there, now that is pretty bad....but you know what I told myself? I decided that that meant that I am getting so good at my job that I don't need much time to prepare for gigs like this anymore and no big deal; I can do them in my sleep practically. And it is true.
But that doesn't make Bailey Day any less fun. Or important. This is our towns big event; and it is important; it is important to our town and it is very meaningful to us as a Ranch as well. See, this will be our 9th year at old McGraw Park with the llamas; our historical park in downtown Bailey, CO. And it is a beauty. With cabins that have been carefully moved there from their original homesteads and then meticulously refurbished; a schoolhouse that received the same loving treatment all from our very own county.
Our town really does this celebration up right too. Lots of great vendors and food too. And it is so fun to teach people about the love of llamas... So, if you live in the area and feel like a drive today; head west towards the cool air of Bailey, Rebels. Consider this your personal invitation.
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
Make a Miracle Today....
Well, you know you have fallen behind on your blog when the most recent picture on it no longer resembles the animal that is residing in your garage!!! My ticks are so different looking it is amazing, they are almost Turkeys... and if I had a working camera right now I could show you...and I am typing this from a precarious position atop my freezer...but technical difficulties aside; I couldn't let my Royal Rebels go another day without an update!
Life at The Royal Ranch is never a dull moment...since I last spoke with you all we have taken in another rescue llama named Russel (no worries, introduction to come...), we have lost our potential adoptive home for two of our boys, but hopefully gained homes for four, possibly even five! We have planted many seeds both literally and figuratively, I hope...and I am still working on simplifying.
Although I am running today, as I have my final dentist appointment, which you can read all about here; all in all this has been such a wonderful experience, but boy am I glad that all of that driving is over! Anyway, since I am pressed for time this morning...I wanted to lay out my next few posts...for all of us. That way I am committed to writing them, and hopefully you all are looking forward to them.
First and foremost, I am so excited to write about our new son Austin and our adventures into Legal Guardianship. This has been such a rewarding experience for us and not that I think every family should go out looking for some kid to try and "save" or something, because that is not at all what Austin is to us; he is a member of our family. But, really this story is worth sharing, and if it could encourage someone else to do the same thing...well even better.
Also, I have been wanting to post about some of the gardening things I have been doing and trying and testing. This is between doctors appointments, my middle son turning 15 and needing a drivers permit, oh Lord yes, you heard that right, and dentist appointments. My point being that a pretty busy person can squeeze in some garden time...even at 9,000 feet in elevation...even in April!
Last and certainly not least...my sister has been diagnosed with breast cancer...wow...just threw that one in there didn't I? Well, I've sort of had a, okay really had a hard time figuring out how I want to talk about this. So give me a few more days and that might be the last on the list....But know that my sister is one Hell of a woman and handling this with such grace and dignity that it is amazing. She has DCIS and will be totally fine after undergoing a double mastectomy. Sort of an oxymoron, right?
Well, from atop the freezer, in snowy CO...finally...I am happy to report that hopefully we are back on track...maybe not daily...remember we are trying to simplify here (LOL), but at least we have things scheduled, right? So come back for some great pictures of my new son and my old son and their Prom dates (thank goodness Dad figured out how to get them off my phone!)...hopefully by then I can get my camera fixed! It's been a really long time since I've said it, but make a miracle today!
Life at The Royal Ranch is never a dull moment...since I last spoke with you all we have taken in another rescue llama named Russel (no worries, introduction to come...), we have lost our potential adoptive home for two of our boys, but hopefully gained homes for four, possibly even five! We have planted many seeds both literally and figuratively, I hope...and I am still working on simplifying.
Although I am running today, as I have my final dentist appointment, which you can read all about here; all in all this has been such a wonderful experience, but boy am I glad that all of that driving is over! Anyway, since I am pressed for time this morning...I wanted to lay out my next few posts...for all of us. That way I am committed to writing them, and hopefully you all are looking forward to them.
First and foremost, I am so excited to write about our new son Austin and our adventures into Legal Guardianship. This has been such a rewarding experience for us and not that I think every family should go out looking for some kid to try and "save" or something, because that is not at all what Austin is to us; he is a member of our family. But, really this story is worth sharing, and if it could encourage someone else to do the same thing...well even better.
Also, I have been wanting to post about some of the gardening things I have been doing and trying and testing. This is between doctors appointments, my middle son turning 15 and needing a drivers permit, oh Lord yes, you heard that right, and dentist appointments. My point being that a pretty busy person can squeeze in some garden time...even at 9,000 feet in elevation...even in April!
Last and certainly not least...my sister has been diagnosed with breast cancer...wow...just threw that one in there didn't I? Well, I've sort of had a, okay really had a hard time figuring out how I want to talk about this. So give me a few more days and that might be the last on the list....But know that my sister is one Hell of a woman and handling this with such grace and dignity that it is amazing. She has DCIS and will be totally fine after undergoing a double mastectomy. Sort of an oxymoron, right?
Well, from atop the freezer, in snowy CO...finally...I am happy to report that hopefully we are back on track...maybe not daily...remember we are trying to simplify here (LOL), but at least we have things scheduled, right? So come back for some great pictures of my new son and my old son and their Prom dates (thank goodness Dad figured out how to get them off my phone!)...hopefully by then I can get my camera fixed! It's been a really long time since I've said it, but make a miracle today!
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Wednesday, April 6, 2011
Simplifying
With a herd of these guys as neighbors, who wouldn't want to spend the summer playin' in poo, er soil?
You know, I wasn't really sure how to write this post, or when I was going to write this post. And it's funny because this post has really been causing me to have a writers block; it's as if I feel like once I get all of this off my chest...I will be able to post more frequently again. Even as I type this..I notice that I have a very concerned, "knit" brow!
I want to be careful how I word this post for some reason...it feels as if it really matters. It's all about simplicity...I am simplifying my life, and being darn careful to do it in a very positive manner. I think it may have started with the carbon monoxide thing...well, that's not entirely true; I have always felt that your thoughts and actions impact your life. But the carbon monoxide scare was the final straw I guess, that and the recycling as funny as it sounds.
I have practically killed myself for the recycling of the schools; literally in some cases. I had lost a bag of recycling on the side of the highway....yes the state's deadliest highway at one point in time, and when I pulled over to pick it up at a later date I sank a foot deep in gopher holes and got stuck! All signs were pointing to time to face the fact that I could no longer handle all of this stuff on my own. And to be honest, I didn't want to, my family had been giving me a hard time about this sort of craziness for quite some time.
I found myself saying things like "my life isn't really this melodramatic" in phone calls and emails to people, as I was rushing here or there...and let me tell you if drama is in your thoughts or words....it is in your life! So I quit saying those things, and I asked for help with the recycling. And I made some really big changes here at home.
We quit the DirectTV habit. Yes, you heard that right. We no longer have access to the outside world unless it is through the internet or Netflix! This has been one of the most amazing things for my family of two (yes, two; exciting news on that later!) 17 year olds and a 15 year old and an 11 year old. We no longer deal with LOUD commercials that are totally inappropriate on some cable networks, I no longer am subjected to news that brings down my already overloaded sensitive senses nor are my kids and we are in absolute control of everything that goes into our heads. It is such a sense of FREEDOM, once you get used to it.
I have decided to really concentrate my energy on The Ranch this year. As I have marketed our great product Naked~Nure; I got the same question over and over again. Why use llama manure? So I am going to take a year or so and answer that question. I am going to try all different sorts of methods of growing (indoors and out), all different ways of using the manure (teas and composts) and I'm going to feed my family and benefit my property in the meantime. I just really feel like the ranch and I have some healing and growing to do together this year.
But, the biggest change of all is that my family is now six. I finally have my son Austin. I have spoken about him before....and he has been a part of my family since the first day he walked through my door with his rolling giggle....but as of Friday April 1, 2011, he is legally ours and I couldn't be happier.
I apologize for my absence; and I look forward to taking you along on my journey of learning to simplify in a world of fast paced living. This should be fun. Tell me, what do you do to slow down and remind yourself to really be a part of today?
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Tuesday, March 22, 2011
A song worth singing
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Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Montana Llama Rescue 2011!
Wow! I have had one of the most amazing experiences in my life, really. Even the big, bad, biker, Tom, said so. And remember, he was my reluctant cohort in this rescue mission in the first place. Well, not once he got there and met these wonderful folks:
The guy in the middle (the driver), looking at the ground, he too is a reluctant participant; because he is used to working with steers. And until that trip, he thought llamas were sissy animals...I don't think he thinks that anymore; but he still didn't like his picture taken with a bunch of llama nuts!
This is the rig that he drove clear across Montana and Wyoming(in very bad weather, I might add) to deliver our boys to us:
Twenty llamas arrived on this trailer. It took them two days to get to La Porte, CO. Which is where we met them at our very wonderful host ranch. Four foster homes met up to pick up their allotment of rescue llamas, a few various wonderful llama lovers, and rescue friends to lend a hand and a small crew from CSU Veterinary School was on hand.
None of us had ever met before, face to face; but we had been preparing for the big arrival via e-mail for a few days...so we greeted each other as old friends would, with hugs all around (that poor cattle driver never knew what hit him...)! All was well...
This poor guy was down in the trailer, getting trampled by the other llamas as they unloaded. We all held our breath...Was he alive? He tried to stand up, fell back down, stumbled out of the trailer and then fell again.... The group, collectively, had not taken a breath yet! He finally stood up triumphantly, and we all just stood there for a second in absolute shock! None of us had ever seen anything like it. His legs were so tangled up in his own wool, it had caused him injuries. We didn't know whether to cheer for him or cry for him.
After our initial moment of horror wore off, we all knew what needed to be done. An in field, on site shearing party it was. With scissors no less...the poor guy got one hell of a bad hair cut, but I'm sure he feels A TON lighter! After the shearing was done, we got down to separating the boys and figuring out who was going where. Tom and I had to laugh later that all of us had bonded with Big Guy (the one with the bad haircut), so when the straws were drawn, and yes, we used actual straw, or maybe it was hay...We all wanted Big Guy!
But, as you can see, there were plenty of great llamas that needed care and love. It was decided that Big Guy (his official name I heard via e-mail last night-ha!) stay near CSU because he has some very specific medical needs that I really don't want to take on. I have five gelded (meaning fixed, neutered, castrated, whatever) males from this herd at The Royal Ranch, and it has been an adventure getting them home and settled.
As you can see from the pics below, they are settling in. They don't like dogs...that is for sure! But, as my youngest son pointed out, in Montana they've probably seen wolves and a canine scent is a canine scent! When they see our Great Pyrenees, Tia, the big white one does the alarm call to warn the others of danger!
We got home well after dark on Sunday, and thanks to a good friend and neighbor's headlights, we got the trailer all ready to unload them, thinking they were just dying to be out after two days of traveling....and NOTHING! They were comfortably bedded down for the night and that was that. So we tied the gate of the trailer to the gate of their "Quarantine" area and left them be.
The guy in the middle (the driver), looking at the ground, he too is a reluctant participant; because he is used to working with steers. And until that trip, he thought llamas were sissy animals...I don't think he thinks that anymore; but he still didn't like his picture taken with a bunch of llama nuts!
This is the rig that he drove clear across Montana and Wyoming(in very bad weather, I might add) to deliver our boys to us:
Twenty llamas arrived on this trailer. It took them two days to get to La Porte, CO. Which is where we met them at our very wonderful host ranch. Four foster homes met up to pick up their allotment of rescue llamas, a few various wonderful llama lovers, and rescue friends to lend a hand and a small crew from CSU Veterinary School was on hand.
None of us had ever met before, face to face; but we had been preparing for the big arrival via e-mail for a few days...so we greeted each other as old friends would, with hugs all around (that poor cattle driver never knew what hit him...)! All was well...
Until we saw this!!!!
This poor guy was down in the trailer, getting trampled by the other llamas as they unloaded. We all held our breath...Was he alive? He tried to stand up, fell back down, stumbled out of the trailer and then fell again.... The group, collectively, had not taken a breath yet! He finally stood up triumphantly, and we all just stood there for a second in absolute shock! None of us had ever seen anything like it. His legs were so tangled up in his own wool, it had caused him injuries. We didn't know whether to cheer for him or cry for him.
After our initial moment of horror wore off, we all knew what needed to be done. An in field, on site shearing party it was. With scissors no less...the poor guy got one hell of a bad hair cut, but I'm sure he feels A TON lighter! After the shearing was done, we got down to separating the boys and figuring out who was going where. Tom and I had to laugh later that all of us had bonded with Big Guy (the one with the bad haircut), so when the straws were drawn, and yes, we used actual straw, or maybe it was hay...We all wanted Big Guy!
But, as you can see, there were plenty of great llamas that needed care and love. It was decided that Big Guy (his official name I heard via e-mail last night-ha!) stay near CSU because he has some very specific medical needs that I really don't want to take on. I have five gelded (meaning fixed, neutered, castrated, whatever) males from this herd at The Royal Ranch, and it has been an adventure getting them home and settled.
As you can see from the pics below, they are settling in. They don't like dogs...that is for sure! But, as my youngest son pointed out, in Montana they've probably seen wolves and a canine scent is a canine scent! When they see our Great Pyrenees, Tia, the big white one does the alarm call to warn the others of danger!
Big Whitey (so far)~ this guy must have been one of the herd leaders (Wow! out of 800 llamas!) because he scored 4 (on a body scale of 1-9), which is quite good, so he was getting most of the food. We also think there is a chance that this guy was at some point in time a herdsire, meaning that he was someone's top breeder. See the tag in his ear? That could mean that he is an import from Chile or Peru.
This is Jose and Shadow, Shadow is our most critical patient (scoring only a 1-2).
This is Mellow (so far) because he is Caramel colored and very mellow as you can see from this picture. He is also the only one that willingly got haltered and loaded into the trailer!
A better shot of Jose, if SWLR accepts us, we may adopt this rebellious boy, he pulled a muscle in the big, bad, bikers back putting him in the trailer, and he was the smallest of all! Leave it to me, to like the roughest one of the bunch!
A group (or butt) shot of the boys checking out their small outdoor yard. I wanted it small on purpose. I don't need these boys getting a ton of exercise and fighting right now. This is a resting and healing zone. On the other hand, they do however have a huge covered area that gets a ton of sunshine and fresh air, just what the doctor ordered. Maybe not the photographer though!
And this dear Rebels, is your llama. I thought it would be fun for you all to get involved with the naming game! I am sorry about the light with this picture, but he is a spectacular boy, because he goes from a cream color to a caramel color that gradates into a dark brownish rust. And then as you can see, he has some white socks too. Once we get this nasty batch of wool off of him, the wool that comes in, will be fantastic! I am hoping to find spinners for him, Big Whitey and Mellow, as they all have beautiful wool.
It really has been an amazing few days. Sunday was unbelievable. Those folks were wonderful and are friends for life now, even if we just e-mail each other for support from now on...which the e-mails have been flying! But to be a part of the nation's biggest animal rescue has been something I can't even describe in words...beyond satisfying? Now you too can be a part of it, help name our nameless guy...
Saturday, January 15, 2011
On a much lighter note...
Flash
(rescued 2006)
I never like to leave you all on a negative note, which I know my last post was, but it needed to be said. Anyway, as I have been busily preparing for my new arrivals from Montana, my faith in mankind has been restored! First and foremost, I have had multiple offers of help from neighbors and friends, but my family has really stepped up to the plate as well. One of the cutest calls I got was from my father, who had to deal with my rebellious butt for the first portion of my life and knew there was no stopping me if I was needed in Montana; and he just quietly offered to go along for the ride! None of the men in my life (Husband, sons or Dad) were too happy about me headed across the country by myself in the middle of winter~to say the least.
My husband too, has been a real gem. He of course started this whole thing out stating that we could help as long as none of them ended up on his property...Well today he has promised to help me move his plow truck out of his barn and turn it into a temporary llama barn as they will be quarantined away from our boys for quite some time. All of this without a word being said; I was really smart this time, I just kept forwarding the e-mails that I was getting from my coordinator, how could he resist?
But one of the biggest things was when I went to go pick up a nice load of hay for my new rescues. I had called my regular hay guy the night before and explained what was going on and since I had become a legal foster home for Southwest Llama Rescue would he maybe want to give me a break on the hay for a tax deduction? Thursday morning I headed down there, and start picking out the proper hay for starving llamas, not an easy task...when he informs me that the load is FREE, yes, 85 bales of beautiful hay was absolutely free!!! When I started to cry, he just hugged me and said "Aaaw, don't make an old farm boy cry."
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Tuesday, January 11, 2011
A Llama Emergency!
All of these boys, except for the one on my left are rescues!
Today I will be doing things a bit differently. I have been madly working with my friend and mentor L'illette, who was my friend Bobra Goldsmith's right hand woman. L'illette has been rescuing llamas for as long as I've known her; as a matter of fact, that is how we became friends. But I'm not sure either of us ever saw this one coming folks. My dear friend put it all in an e-mail to me this weekend, and here it is for you in its entirety:
If you’re not up-to-date on this, please check out the http://southeastllamarescue.org website, Gary Kaufman’s YouTube video, and Jerry Finch (President/Founder of Habitat for Horses) blog report. Horrific in the most literal sense.
I’m also trying to keep my website at lillette.net updated with these links and any other info that comes along. And a Facebook page has been created: MLAS Llama Rescue. I urge you to cross-post my status update emails to you, the links above, any information you can. And if you have any press contacts, please get the word out to them, too. We need national coverage to get things going faster. Weather and road conditions in Montana mean we have to move these animals quickly.
TRANSPORT
I’m also trying to keep my website at lillette.net updated with these links and any other info that comes along. And a Facebook page has been created: MLAS Llama Rescue. I urge you to cross-post my status update emails to you, the links above, any information you can. And if you have any press contacts, please get the word out to them, too. We need national coverage to get things going faster. Weather and road conditions in Montana mean we have to move these animals quickly.
TRANSPORT
The newly formed Montana Llama Rescue Coalition (MTLLRC) comprising representatives from llama breed and rescue organizations across the country, has been collecting money for transports and the ASPCA has promised a large donation, funds yet to be received.
We have one big load of 100 earmarked for points east, but need a big cattle hauler. Including below one of the latest emails on that topic for your reference. So if you know of any cattle haulers or anyone who might be able to take on some of these admittedly worrisome, starved, probably ill, and largely untrained llamas—yep, hoping for big miracles all around!—please spread the word.
We have one big load of 100 earmarked for points east, but need a big cattle hauler. Including below one of the latest emails on that topic for your reference. So if you know of any cattle haulers or anyone who might be able to take on some of these admittedly worrisome, starved, probably ill, and largely untrained llamas—yep, hoping for big miracles all around!—please spread the word.
Also have places for about 25 in Texas and a few so far in Ft. Collins area that can be dropped off en route to Texas. So far, I’ve found one livestock hauler out of Iowa who can take about 35-40 per trip, and 10-15 of the Texas-bound llamas can be dropped off en route.
RMLA AREA – WE NEED YOU! Only two farms so far have offered to help, and I really need more foster caretakers for here in CO. Ideally, of course, we’d like to get in at least one large group to some place where we can then get them initial care, sorting, etc. and on to farms in smaller groups. Our desperately needed miracles will hopefully include some sort of staging/temporary sanctuary area where a bunch could winter under shelter and with care and oversight. (This applies to all regions, not just RMLA.) FYI, these are mostly geldings and a few intact males at this point… hundreds of them still awaiting rescue, and dying as they wait.
Quick immediate and urgent needs lists (target is national, not just for my little regions):
RMLA AREA – WE NEED YOU! Only two farms so far have offered to help, and I really need more foster caretakers for here in CO. Ideally, of course, we’d like to get in at least one large group to some place where we can then get them initial care, sorting, etc. and on to farms in smaller groups. Our desperately needed miracles will hopefully include some sort of staging/temporary sanctuary area where a bunch could winter under shelter and with care and oversight. (This applies to all regions, not just RMLA.) FYI, these are mostly geldings and a few intact males at this point… hundreds of them still awaiting rescue, and dying as they wait.
Quick immediate and urgent needs lists (target is national, not just for my little regions):
· Cattle hauler with double-decker style rig to transport 100 MT llamas to Northeast Llama Rescue (NELR) – see email included below.
· Foster farms that can take in large numbers for immediate triage and distribution asap in smaller groups to other foster farms.
· Other foster farms: even if you can take only a few, if enough folks will volunteer, that adds up to a lot more lives saved.
· Donations of money via http://southeastllamarescue.org – all tax-deductible, initially for transport, with any remaining funds, such as if ASPCA comes through, going to veterinary care.
· Please contact your camelid vets to ask if they’ll donate services or reduce costs for this rescue effort.
· Knowledgeable llama folks who can be in MT to help load the llamas, or at the receiving ends to help unload, triage, distribute.
Please be aware that there will surely be initial costs to you angels who offer to take llamas. For my RMLA folks, I will set you up as a Southwest Llama Rescue, Inc. foster farm, which means your expenses may be tax deductible. Too, SWLR will continue to raise money to reimburse expenses incurred by foster farms. I’m sure the other rescue organizations are working along the same lines.
Again, if you haven’t been keeping up with the situation, please read Jerry Finch’s blog report from December 27. And know that the situation is much, much worse now. I don’t know how to tug any better at your heartstrings, but my own heart is breaking. Llamas are dying every day, and many may not even survive our rescue attempts. But some will! You can be part of this enormous endeavor to save as many llama lives as possible. I can only plead with you to help in whatever ways you can, whether it be a little or monumental. Nothing like this has ever happened in the rescue world, and certainly not to our beloved llamas. Please, please… please.
L’illetteL’illette Vasquez
SWLR/SELR Llama Rescues
LANA/RMLA/MTLLRC Llama Rescue Committees
L’illy Llamas at Rocky Mt. Llamas
7202 N 45th Street
Longmont CO 80503-8844
I chose a Tuesday to post this because I cross post on Green Spot-On and I know that you my Rebels will surely get involved, if you can. Put the word out people, and if you know me, you probably guessed the reason for my absence the last day or so, yes I have a few tricks up my sleeve! I am hoping to get our local Environmental Action class involved with my rescue mission...ooops did I let that slip? Is the RR headed to Montana?
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Friday, December 31, 2010
Waste not, want not....
My apologies folks, I left my camera at my parents house on Christmas! I will post pics as soon as I get it back~ooops!!! This just means you have to come back to see my amazing gifts. J~
I've got to tell you, this is probably one of my favorite expressions in life...And my kids' least favorite! But I mean it literally pains me to see things go to waste. Hence, this years Christmas gifts. What? Yes, I took things that were going to go to waste, and I turned them into Christmas gifts for my family and friends. Hold on with the hillbilly jokes for just a second, they turned out okay!
If you remember, pre-back injury, I worked at the food pantry. Even at a food pantry there is waste. Yes, it kills me to admit it, but it is true. There are berries that get put in a fridge in the basement that get forgotten, or herbs that are just not picked up, or whatever; well, not on my watch. I would take the stuff home and put it in the freezer, with my daughter/helper moaning all the while.
Well, as part of my post-back surgery physical therapy (boy am I smart) and to get some of my gifts made, I got myself moving by getting these things out of the freezer and seeing what I could make with them. I had enough berries for six jars of triple berry jam and six jars of blueberry jam. I made the herbs into a Tarragon vinegar. But the really fun part about this was that I got to use some of my very special bottle collection...
The bottles under the stairs.... They were a mystery when we first moved in; there were hundreds of them. Many of them beautiful, all of them old, and they at some point in time had been cleaned and very carefully collected. Medicine bottles, liquor bottles, round bottles, square bottles...you get the idea; they were everywhere! That is when we found out that old Charlie Royal had lost the original Royal Ranch to tax evasion for moonshining! He built our home in 1955 after that and apparently never lost his urge to collect bottles for his hobby!
So, even ol' Charlie would be smiling down on this years gifts I think; although it may not be moonshine, it hopefully will be just as useful! But one of the great things about it was that I received gifts like this too. One of my sisters and her family made us a calendar with all of our important dates on it; chock full of family photos! My other sisters family made us the yummiest green chile ever; and my parents brought tears to all of our eyes this year with extra touching gifts from the heart.
We all got pictures of our grandparents from their high school years and then each of us got a touch of the past. Mine was my birth card, the little girl card that they put on the bassinet in the hospital the day I was born! And then I also got some beautiful antique Christmas figurines that I have loved since I was a little girl and used to put them out every year; they are from my Dads parents; very special indeed!
Sunday, December 5, 2010
Royal Ranch Royalty
Photo courtesy of Rocky Mt. Llamas & Bobra Goldsmith
Today I will not even try to stop the flow of tears, I really deserve this cry. I have lost my friend and mentor Bobra Goldsmith. Three weeks ago she was diagnosed with Leukemia and Friday morning she passed away. That's that.
Long time readers will recognize the name, because Bobra gave me Thunderboy. And I have never been so proud of a gift in my whole life, especially now. Let me give you a little background on my relationship with this amazing woman. Many years ago, when I first decided to get into llamas I chose to take one of Bobra's training classes. Now, keep in mind that all of the people in the class were there to train their llamas, and I went to train myself. Which I think is what really impressed Bobra; she knew that I was taking this seriously and wanted as much information and knowledge about these majestic animals as I could get before I brought one (or ten...) home.
She was then the person who put me in touch with the organic farm that I rescued Marcel and Jasper from; as a matter of fact, back then I didn't even have a trailer yet, so she delivered those boys herself; in a van I might add. I'll never forget the compliment she gave me that day. Marcel (my lead llama and also the llama on the cover of my book) was not used to being handled, and had been very difficult for her to catch. She told me that she never, ever has left a halter on a llama, but was worried that we might not be able to catch him again if she didn't leave it on him for a few days. She said to me "Judy, I have the utmost faith in you, and I would never do this with anyone else, but you will have this wild boy in shape in no time flat. Work with him daily to get him calmed down, and get that halter off as soon as possible." And that is exactly what I did.
Bobra Goldsmith was one of the first people to bring llamas into the state of Colorado. She worked tirelessly with the Forest Service and her train of pack llamas to keep the forests around Boulder clean and trails maintained. She even developed her own line of llama equipment and pack gear that is absolutely unrivaled in its usefulness. And this is all after she was an accomplished professor at CU! But one of the main things that I really loved about Bobra was her sense of family. She had suffered the loss of her husband and mother, and cared for her ill step-father until she herself could no longer do so.
I told Tom last night that she was one of those people that you just assumed would never die. She was old when I met her, and although she had aged, she just was "Bobra". Even the boys knew how sad I would be...I had gotten the message via a text, and my sweet little daughter quietly made sure her brothers knew that Mommy was sad. It seems the whole llama community is probably really sad today, we lost a pioneer, a teacher, a volunteer, but most of all a dear friend. My hat is off to you, Bobra, you were one of a kind!
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Wednesday, December 1, 2010
America's Foreclosure Epidemic
Yes, we have become a part of the horrific statistics. Blessedly, we were able to pull our beloved ranch out of the horrific word...foreclosure...in twenty five days! And it still cost us a bloody fortune. But that is not what prompted me to write this post. It is the two ladies that have told me of their impending foreclosures in the last week that have prompted me to write this post. To be honest, I was just going to keep my mouth shut out of embarrassment, really.
But then I got to thinking how this whole thing went down. And I delivered a load of hay back to a friends house in a sort of "poor" neighborhood in our area, and saw all of the empty houses. And then my neighbor stopped by to pick up an antler set that she had once given me; she needed it back to decorate and try and sell because her house was being foreclosed upon. The same house that she had cared for her dying mother in, and that she has about 15 animals in...All for $5,000.
Then I get a call on the RV that we have for sale, due to the foreclosure, of course...who ends up to be a gal that I used to work with at the food pantry. Her house has already been done, they're out. See ya. Well, gee, she's hoping the judge will be real nice and see that she's got a family and twenty years of stuff and let them stay through the holidays. Then they can go live in an RV somewhere nice, that'll be a great learning environment for three high school boys, I'm sure.
So, these are the reasons I write today. If I sound a little pissed off, well I am. I've got to tell you, we were funneled right into this system from the get go. Those modifications that they offer, be careful (and believe me, I was)...they are almost designed to fail it seems. I have heard that from almost every single person (including our attorney and the Colorado Foreclosure hotline, unofficially, of course) in the same boat. And never, ever make partial payments, or payments once you have been put into any legal situation. You will never see that money again, it goes into a suspension fund, luckily we learned this through friends and did not make that mistake.
I want to give you a quick example so you don't think that I wasn't paying attention like often happens. A year or so ago when I knew we were getting behind, I did the stand up thing and got us on a modification. We did all they said, went through the trial period, great... and then one day (perfectly legal, according to the hotline) before our first regular payment was due they told us it was $400 more. Well, already times were tight, we started off on a bad foot, they add a ridiculous late fee, my back, blah, blah...the story goes down hill from there.
But again, this isn't about just us, what's really breaking my heart is watching my little community waste away, and feeling like there's not a damn thing we can do about it. I actually caught myself saying to Tom last night "If we owned all of the houses, than the government couldn't." And as crazy as it sounds, it was the first thing that has made sense to me in a long time. What the hell does the government want with all of these piece of junk houses that only hold the love of one family, but the value to whom (or none for that matter)?
Is it all to make our trillion dollar debt look that much smaller on paper? So that they can say they have those assets with a dollar amount that they determine the value of? I mean it was all a big scam, the way we had to pay off the attorneys. One day it was one amount, the next day...$520 more. And Tom had to pay it through a glass box; I guess that is because so many people have gone nutso on the folks, they've learned they're lesson and put up choke proof barriers!
Now I know that we can't go giving everybody free rides...I'm not that much of a bleeding heart. But most of these people are hard working honest people that have just come across hard times, mostly due to this economic hell hole we are in. Which no one can really point their fingers at who's fault it is, and to be honest I really don't give a damn anymore; it's time to quit pointing fingers and getting our asses to work saving our neighborhoods.
And I don't really love the idea of the government owning all the homes in my hood, I don't know about you. I like real estate to determine the value of real estate, not the government, especially since I own quite a bit of real estate in this hood. But I do have a few thoughts rattling around in this head of mine to try and put a stop to this vicious cycle. We can't just stand by and watch the neighborhood go to the wolves, so to speak. At least I can't, or won't.
But then I got to thinking how this whole thing went down. And I delivered a load of hay back to a friends house in a sort of "poor" neighborhood in our area, and saw all of the empty houses. And then my neighbor stopped by to pick up an antler set that she had once given me; she needed it back to decorate and try and sell because her house was being foreclosed upon. The same house that she had cared for her dying mother in, and that she has about 15 animals in...All for $5,000.
Then I get a call on the RV that we have for sale, due to the foreclosure, of course...who ends up to be a gal that I used to work with at the food pantry. Her house has already been done, they're out. See ya. Well, gee, she's hoping the judge will be real nice and see that she's got a family and twenty years of stuff and let them stay through the holidays. Then they can go live in an RV somewhere nice, that'll be a great learning environment for three high school boys, I'm sure.
So, these are the reasons I write today. If I sound a little pissed off, well I am. I've got to tell you, we were funneled right into this system from the get go. Those modifications that they offer, be careful (and believe me, I was)...they are almost designed to fail it seems. I have heard that from almost every single person (including our attorney and the Colorado Foreclosure hotline, unofficially, of course) in the same boat. And never, ever make partial payments, or payments once you have been put into any legal situation. You will never see that money again, it goes into a suspension fund, luckily we learned this through friends and did not make that mistake.
I want to give you a quick example so you don't think that I wasn't paying attention like often happens. A year or so ago when I knew we were getting behind, I did the stand up thing and got us on a modification. We did all they said, went through the trial period, great... and then one day (perfectly legal, according to the hotline) before our first regular payment was due they told us it was $400 more. Well, already times were tight, we started off on a bad foot, they add a ridiculous late fee, my back, blah, blah...the story goes down hill from there.
But again, this isn't about just us, what's really breaking my heart is watching my little community waste away, and feeling like there's not a damn thing we can do about it. I actually caught myself saying to Tom last night "If we owned all of the houses, than the government couldn't." And as crazy as it sounds, it was the first thing that has made sense to me in a long time. What the hell does the government want with all of these piece of junk houses that only hold the love of one family, but the value to whom (or none for that matter)?
Is it all to make our trillion dollar debt look that much smaller on paper? So that they can say they have those assets with a dollar amount that they determine the value of? I mean it was all a big scam, the way we had to pay off the attorneys. One day it was one amount, the next day...$520 more. And Tom had to pay it through a glass box; I guess that is because so many people have gone nutso on the folks, they've learned they're lesson and put up choke proof barriers!
Now I know that we can't go giving everybody free rides...I'm not that much of a bleeding heart. But most of these people are hard working honest people that have just come across hard times, mostly due to this economic hell hole we are in. Which no one can really point their fingers at who's fault it is, and to be honest I really don't give a damn anymore; it's time to quit pointing fingers and getting our asses to work saving our neighborhoods.
And I don't really love the idea of the government owning all the homes in my hood, I don't know about you. I like real estate to determine the value of real estate, not the government, especially since I own quite a bit of real estate in this hood. But I do have a few thoughts rattling around in this head of mine to try and put a stop to this vicious cycle. We can't just stand by and watch the neighborhood go to the wolves, so to speak. At least I can't, or won't.
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Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Animal advice from an, er, expert
Speaking of Rams!
I always have to laugh a little bit at some of these funny titles these days, many of them not requiring degrees or years of knowledge. Animal behaviorist, animal psychologist, animal...you name it, there is an expert out there for it. Now, don't get me wrong, I am by no means dissing them, the title comes from me doubting myself, just a little.
I have been living with and loving animals most of my life. Although Mom was raised on a farm in Iowa and was not fond of taking care of critters we did always have outdoor cats and dogs as kids. Then within about a week of Tom and I cohabitating we realized that life with just two people was very boring after living in a house with all of his buddies; so we got our first orange tabby; Razz. As you know, the story has grown and multiplied over the last twenty years...dramatically.
Even before I met Tom, I was an active volunteer with various rescue groups. If I remember correctly, the first being the Inter-mountain Humane Society, or was it the Evergreen Animal Protective League? I don't know which came first and it doesn't really matter, the point is, is that I have been doing this a long time, and I still doubt myself as an expert in the field of animals; crazy!
That is why you always have a good team to back you up. Mentors are my first line of defense. And I have different mentors for each group of animal; sometimes it is the person I got the animals from (like the sheep breeder or a llama breeder). But most of the time, you need to search out your own mentors, maybe this can be your vet, or even someone you meet online; but make sure you have that person to call (or e-mail) for advice at a moments notice. It goes without saying, that a person with animals needs a good, trustworthy vet. Not a vet that you are intimidated by, or don't share beliefs with, but one that you know will come out for any reason what-so-ever!
But the most important thing a pet owner can have is common sense, no really. Common sense enough to trust your own instinct when it comes to your critters. Watching them and knowing them is the very best preventative medicine you can do for them. Almost every training method (100% success rate) that I have come up with has come from simply watching the behavior of my animals and adjusting the routine.
Take for instance our dog Rosie. She was depressed and getting aggressive. How do you tell a dog is depressed? Well, she attacked a cat, she was not hanging out with the family, when she did she had her head down, etc, she just seemed depressed. She was also very aggressively going after Gigi, my little dog that we had recently inherited from my Grandma; so it didn't take a genius to figure out what was causing her depression. She had been my Baby and now Gigi was going everywhere with me. So, I started taking Rosie with me everywhere; she no longer had to be in the fence with the rest of the dogs she got treated exactly like I treated Gigi (the only reason Gigi wasn't in the fence was because she could squeeze out of the wire!)
Now, as for the aggressive behavior towards the cat and Gigi, I was not taking any chances there (not with kids and small animals in the house), and I got aggressive myself. I attacked her back just like another dog would. It scared the crap out of my kids, I must tell you, but it got the point across to Rosie as well. I yelled, and growled and rolled her over in a submissive position and held her there until she knew who was boss. Between doing these two very easy and minor things Rosie is a very happy and normal companion now.
Let's move on to my problematic Rooster while we are talking about dominance here, because this is a new battle for me. As I mentioned dominance is something that I believe you should always show in your herd, so to speak. But, this is just a chicken, a bird for goodness sake! Really, what harm is he going to cause me, and why do I have to win that battle? It really took some re-thinking on my part. I realized that every time the roo would see me get worked up, so would he, and if I would just hold still...he would fluff his feathers and move on.
So I tried this new thinking with my teenage son yesterday when I made him go gather eggs for my friend Janet. I told him exactly what to do, even though he insisted the rooster would not attack him. Well, he said that bird followed him around trying to get him into battle. He did exactly what I told him to do. "No, chicken", and hold still. The funniest thing was his response. He said that it went against his grain. He said "you know Mom, I'm a teenager, and I really wanted to teach that chicken who was boss, it felt like I was letting him win!" It's very hard to turn the other cheek sometimes.
Speaking of battles you can't win, remember that it is time for the rut, people. Elk are bugling, the deer have that wild look in their eye, and my ram Paco, well, he looks like he's gonna knock me flat on my ass.. So as soon as I can catch him, he will be locked up with his girlfriend Esther. And let me tell you, I won't be catching him with my hands, that sheep has one crazed look about him, I will wait until he is in the right pen, and then I will simply close him into it. Yeah right, and then watch him ram the hell out of the gate, but that is why they call them rams I guess!
While we are talking about advice, I thought I'd mention a trick I have been using lately on the dogs various leg injuries. It is total and complete immobilization. Iowa has hurt her leg twice since we have brought her home, and now Gigi has a hurt leg. When a dog is limping there can be many causes; check the foot first looking for any burs or cuts on the pad. If there are none, you may need to try this trick, and it has saved me big bucks, because all of the times I thought I was headed to the vet. Although it seems a bit drastic, put the dog in her crate for a minimum of two days, only walking her on a leash for potty breaks. The problem is that dogs don't know not to run on an injured leg, and will still run to the front door to bark or whatever. This really is the only way to completely immobilize an animal, lock them up. I always feel terrible doing it, but when the leg is better, I know I have done the right thing.
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Monday, September 27, 2010
Kindness Day
Today is one of the worst anniversaries a person can have. It is the anniversary of the Platte Canyon High School shooting, and you can read all about my memories of that day here. But, something wonderful has come from that shooting, actually a lot of something wonderful has come from that tragic day. Kindness Day being top on the list.
I've got to say, I was really disappointed when I heard that the school was changing things up a bit and making Kindness Day voluntary for the teachers to participate in. If they want their class to be involved in a community event then they could plan one, and if not today will be a normal learning day. That was until I talked to my friend Tiffany who was there that day, and found out that she hates (Sorry T if that is too strong of a word, but you all know what I mean) Kindness Day, it brings back too many memories. As a matter of fact, she doesn't even watch any news because she doesn't want to relive it again and again. And I realized that we as parents may want to take this is a lesson to our children, but we didn't have to be there, and live the horrific experiences that these people have taken years to try to forget.
It also gave me a great idea as to what activity to do today for Kindness Day. The educators at Platte Canyon High School and Fitzsimmons Middle School are some of the hardest working people I have ever come across in my life, and whether they like to admit it or not, it is because of that terrible day. There is a bond that ties this community that I do not think is matched anywhere else in the world, except for maybe another small town community that has shared an experience like that. Our children are kinder than others and our teachers, well they just seem to love their students a fraction more than most.
So, today I will take my Environmental Action class (like how I call it my class when I only co-teach one day a week?) and honor the staff at those two schools. I am working on a poem (better get my poop in a group, it is today you know!) that the kids will use as a thank you card, we will attach them to the firestarters that we already made (my poem is about the fire within, get it?) and make sure that every staff member has one or two; so each time they light a fire, it will remind them of the acts of kindness they do each and every day.
The elementary school has really gotten into it as well, and this year they have come up with a winner. They filled a school bus with all sorts of games and books that the children have been gathering from home for weeks. Games that the kids don't use anymore, so to me, the "green" freak, this is a fantastic way of cleaning out PSwhatever cupboards all over the district! We were also able to add in books and puzzles, board games and anything else game oriented we thought the children at Children's Hospital would think was fun. Today the Student Council (blessedly my daughter is on the SC, so I will get to hear first hand about this experience) will ride the bus down to the Children's Hospital and deliver the "gifts" in person.
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Saturday, September 25, 2010
Chivalry is not dead
Today is Homecoming in our quaint little town and I have written and bragged about it before so I won't go into all of the little details. Just know that our little town really gets into it! What I wanted to talk about today is our youth, and how very proud I am of them. Yes, you read that right. This is not another post about how the youth today is going to hell in a hand basket...it's about how we as parents are doing a few things right for a change.
My oldest son has a date for the dance, and that in itself is wonderful. You see, he has very high standards in girls. This one is not smart enough, and that one can't hold a conversation. But it was how he asked the girl that was so impressive. He came home the other day, in a very thoughtful mood. And after some careful prodding, I found out it was because he was trying to figure out the wording...he painted the question on her car while she played the winning Homecoming Softball game! (Don't worry Dad, I too made sure he had appropriate paint-ha!) And by the way, she is still driving around town with it on her car...too cute!
Another one of the boys left his hopeful date a bouquet of flowers in her assigned parking spot at school to ask her for her hand at the dance. Romance has been in the air all week at the high school, and it has had me smiling just hearing about it. No texting, or facebooking, well yes, there is a lot of that, but it is just to find out who is wearing what and going with whom. Not the important face to face interactions that really matter. These kids know how to treat one another as humans, with respect and kindness.
Just Thursday, both of my boys got Husky tickets (the "reward" system at the High School for positive behavior) for opening the door for an elderly lady at the local gas station. When my younger son came home simply amazed that you could get a Husky ticket outside of school, I said to him "Son, that is when your chivalry was all that more impressive. No one was around like me and Dad, or teachers or anyone to tell you and Bubby what to do, and you still did the right thing!"
I can't tell you how happy I was that there actually had been an on top of it staff person around. Now all I have to do is wait for those Husky tickets to appear (each staff person signs them, and they will get mailed home when the boys redeem them), and thank the heck out of them!
So parents, quit reading all of those articles that say we are ruining our kids. We are doing the best we can, and that is all we can do (well, just make sure you are doing that of course-ha!). Technology is not killing them. Chivalry is not dead. Teach your kids respect and it will show up, I guarantee it.
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Friday, September 24, 2010
Royal Rebel Friday
Good morning Rebels! I hope you have been working towards your goals this week. Let's see what have I been doing to work towards my goals? Well, I am collecting and handling the mail each day. I have worked with two of my lenders and gotten on programs to get us completely caught up. Now this is a real pain in the rumpy, but very worth it, because of late fees and calls. Now when I meet with my new bookkeeper, I will have some great progress to report.
The exciting news of the day though, is that I was working in my daughter's classroom yesterday and her teacher had me go to the office to make some copies. Well, this never seems to go well for me. I don't like asking the overly busy secretary for help anyway, and the damn original looked like an accordion when we were done with it, but we finally got my 125 copies done. So off I went. I was elsewhere in the building and came back to the classroom to hear that she had called me back to the office. I got the "oooohhh, you're in big trouble" from the class, and dreadedly picked up the phone.
Guess what had happened in that few minutes? One of the teachers from the pre-school had brought her one of my books, that a student had brought from home! She was calling to tell me she didn't know she was "wrestling" the copy machine with a famous author!!!! I just laughed and laughed. She asked where she could get the book, and I of course told her I'd bring her one as soon as I could.
How about you, what have you been up to this week?
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Thursday, September 2, 2010
Firestarters
As I have mentioned a few times, I am helping my friend Tiffany teach a class on Wednesdays at our local middle school. Our class is called Environmental Action, perfect for her and I, huh? Actually, she got to choose the class, one of the things that I am so proud of, in this day of budget cuts, our school found a way to add a slew of electives for our kids! Not only are our teachers getting to teach things they have never taught, some of them for the first time in more than ten years, but our kids had a variety of electives that our district has never seen!
Okay, enough bragging, and on to the nitty gritty. Last Wednesday, our goal was to use up the huge amount of eighteen packs of egg cartons that I get donated to me. Although I love my egg carton donations, most families only use a dozen, especially once they learn of how rich farm fresh eggs are, so the eighteen packs were really stacking up. I had a stack about two feet high, and that is with them all laid flat into one another!
So, brilliant Tiffany found a recipe for Firestarters. We had the kids bring in old candles, shredded paper and cotton material. We filled the egg cartons with the materials (I found that a mix of paper and cotton works best) and then filled with the melted candles. Interestingly, you can just toss the whole candle in a double boiler, when you go to pour it into the cartons, any wicks or labels will separate. We even used recycled double boilers, as we had coffee cans for the water and smaller steel cans for the wax.
Let them dry, and then tear them apart. The extra egg carton that will be attached to each firestarter will be the "wick". Now, I have not tried any, because the kids have decided to donate them, doesn't that make a person proud, but I'm sure they'd make your fire in the woods just dandy to start, let alone one at home!
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Thursday, August 26, 2010
Judy, on being a mom, a volunteer and a politico
So Tuesday I was on my way to my last School Advisory Council (SAC) meeting for our middle school; I no longer have a middle schooler, so I was just going to finish out my post for last year. I had a lot on my mind, I had started my new SAC post with the High School the day before, was really looking forward to teaching my new class, but was a little concerned over some things I had heard at the HS meeting.
You see, I am in a very interesting position when it comes to the schools and this town. I am quite active in politics as a Registered Republican, and in Park County, that means that you are involved in all of the action because it (the county) is entirely Republican, sorry Democrats, but it is how I keep tabs on the pulse, if you know what I mean. Now, in general, and I do say, in general, the school system is run by Democrats.
As we all know, education and politics go hand in hand. Especially when it comes to the Sheriffs race. What? At least in Park County. Okay, it doesn't all boil down to the Sheriffs race, but it came darn close at the last Board meeting, sounds like. Which is a shame, because it was the last meeting of our very distinguished President who has to leave our area.
Anyway, it turned into a circus, the day before election, ironically, or not, with allegations against the Sheriffs Dept that turned into screaming at our Superintendent to step down. (The reason the two are connected is because we have a Sheriff Resource Officer (SRO) at our school, please follow the links if you'd like to catch up on the whole sordid story.)
Well, I wasn't at that meeting, and hadn't heard anything about it until the HS SAC meeting on Monday, been under a rock you know. But, I went home and did some reading and found some very interesting information. Well, as I said, I know some things that the people at the school don't know because I knew the names of the folks that had raised a stink at the board meeting... they were a lot of the same people that I had recently spent the day with up at the Republican Assembly where I was a delegate.
My feelings on the matter were...uneasy. I knew that it had been politically motivated, but was concerned about the schools as a whole. Well, I was walking into a trap. By the end of my last middle school SAC meeting I had somehow been voted Chairperson for this coming school year, as a community member, since I no longer have a student at FMS. This will involve another year of meetings (me running them-yikes!), all of the District meetings and who knows what other duties they did not inform me of-ha!
But, I may be a great person for the job. Although there was a little chuckle when I said that I recognized the names of the trouble makers (they must think it's the tattooed, hillbilly in me), I think the real surprise to these ladies might be that these are the same folks who are running this county. Or at least representing them when it comes to voting at the assembly, again sorry Dems, but numbers don't lie. So I can see both sides of the coin so to speak.
But, the very good news, is that in all of this brew-ha-ha, I have answered one of my own questions! So, our Sheriff beat the first guy in the Primary. My question was, does this declare him the final victor or can people change parties? Well, I don't know about changing parties, but I do know that you can still become a write in candidate after the primary, and I'm adding my name...Just Kidding!!!! No, but another fella did just that, and lo and behold if he isn't one of the fellas causing trouble for the school district/SRO relationship.
You see, I am in a very interesting position when it comes to the schools and this town. I am quite active in politics as a Registered Republican, and in Park County, that means that you are involved in all of the action because it (the county) is entirely Republican, sorry Democrats, but it is how I keep tabs on the pulse, if you know what I mean. Now, in general, and I do say, in general, the school system is run by Democrats.
As we all know, education and politics go hand in hand. Especially when it comes to the Sheriffs race. What? At least in Park County. Okay, it doesn't all boil down to the Sheriffs race, but it came darn close at the last Board meeting, sounds like. Which is a shame, because it was the last meeting of our very distinguished President who has to leave our area.
Anyway, it turned into a circus, the day before election, ironically, or not, with allegations against the Sheriffs Dept that turned into screaming at our Superintendent to step down. (The reason the two are connected is because we have a Sheriff Resource Officer (SRO) at our school, please follow the links if you'd like to catch up on the whole sordid story.)
Well, I wasn't at that meeting, and hadn't heard anything about it until the HS SAC meeting on Monday, been under a rock you know. But, I went home and did some reading and found some very interesting information. Well, as I said, I know some things that the people at the school don't know because I knew the names of the folks that had raised a stink at the board meeting... they were a lot of the same people that I had recently spent the day with up at the Republican Assembly where I was a delegate.
My feelings on the matter were...uneasy. I knew that it had been politically motivated, but was concerned about the schools as a whole. Well, I was walking into a trap. By the end of my last middle school SAC meeting I had somehow been voted Chairperson for this coming school year, as a community member, since I no longer have a student at FMS. This will involve another year of meetings (me running them-yikes!), all of the District meetings and who knows what other duties they did not inform me of-ha!
But, I may be a great person for the job. Although there was a little chuckle when I said that I recognized the names of the trouble makers (they must think it's the tattooed, hillbilly in me), I think the real surprise to these ladies might be that these are the same folks who are running this county. Or at least representing them when it comes to voting at the assembly, again sorry Dems, but numbers don't lie. So I can see both sides of the coin so to speak.
But, the very good news, is that in all of this brew-ha-ha, I have answered one of my own questions! So, our Sheriff beat the first guy in the Primary. My question was, does this declare him the final victor or can people change parties? Well, I don't know about changing parties, but I do know that you can still become a write in candidate after the primary, and I'm adding my name...Just Kidding!!!! No, but another fella did just that, and lo and behold if he isn't one of the fellas causing trouble for the school district/SRO relationship.
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